This is something that can make the beautiful, brave and hopeful journey of cycle breaking in our families (and for ourselves) so much harder. Instead of focusing on the expansive journey we have undertaken we often focus on the following:
How can I get it all RIGHT?
Why do I find this so hard?
Why am I not getting it all right?
Am I damaging my kids?
You cannot get it all right and it is not necessary either but our perfectionism convinces us otherwise.
Please have a listen to Grow Yourself Up episode 104 for more on this. I hope that you can welcome in more ease, self compassion and understanding for yourself around this topic.
